Most men think they can hold their own when it comes to meeting single women and talking with them. However, when the time comes, they choke for one reason or another and blow up the chance of meeting and talking with women whom they are attracted to.

A sure-fire way to avoid choking on one of the more important moments of your life is to be prepared. List down the things that are important to you, the topics you like to talk about and are comfortable with.
 

• What are you most enthusiastic about? (sports, hobbies, theaters, fiction and non-fiction books, music, new technology)
  
  
• Who are the people that matter most in your life? (Mother Teresa, John Lennon, Bill Clinton, your parents)
  
  
• What future plans are you most enthusiastic about? (rebuilding a car, learning a new sport, joining an organization)
  
  
• What social issues are you concerned with? (environment, animal welfare, volunteer work)
  
  
• What are your likes and preferences? (watching television, going to a ball game, going to the beach, hiking, camping)

• Be ready to talk about news of interests and give your opinions.
  
  
• Stock up on sizzling, inoffensive jokes and be sure to deliver the punch line correctly.

Your answers and opinions to the above will gives an insight on the way you relate to the world around you. It adds a different perspective to your personality and intellect. Be definite on your opinions, communicate your interest, and make your feelings and values known.