There are five simple and effective techniques you can employ to make the opposite sex take notice of you, without coming on very strong!

GET NOTICED!

Everybody secretly desires get noticed! Experts of spatial psychology say that where you are in a room immensely contributes in getting noticed and attracting the opposite sex. So where should you be?

In the center of the room, standing up, and moving around just a little a bit as if you are holding court over all the other people present!
 
It is totally different however if you are in a bar or a nightclub – the best place to be is in one of the corners of the bar, never by the wall or sitting at a table. You will get served faster because bartenders gravitate to the corners and at the same time have your hands full meeting members of the opposite sex, it’s like you died and went to dating heaven!

USE COLOR TO LURE

A study done by the Pantone Color Institute reveals that women are generally attracted to men who wear the color blue. Why? The same study also indicate that men who regularly wear blue are stable, faithful, constant and always there and are perceived as excellent candidates for a long-term relationship!

For women it is advisable for them to wear shades of pink or peach. Not only does it make women look more approachable, the color is also very flattering to most skin tones, gives a healthy glow, and projects a little vulnerability which brings out a man’s protective instinct.

Red, most sensual of all the colors, stands for sex and power, and an element of excitement. It attracts two types of men – those interested in sex and those attracted to powerful women.

LET YOUR BODY DO THE TALKING

How do you use body language to attract the opposite sex?

Women should avoid taking up a lot of space, let everybody (especially the men) notice that you have room for someone else in your life, make yourself approachable. Women should have their feet no more than 6 inches apart, with toes pointed slightly inward if they are standing.

Men who appear in control (more dominant) effectively attract women. Stand with your feet 6-10 inches apart, toes pointing outward; feel free to take up space, hold your heads up, speed up your speech (don’t be hesitant), and make your gestures more emphatic but not obtrusive.

SMILE – And The World Smiles With You!

Smile, but avoid looking like an idiot when you do! The normal "I'm having a great time and happy to be here" smile will do the trick. A smile is the universal gesture of friendliness.

TEMPT WITH SCENT

Research has established that men associate the scents of cinnamon and vanilla with love. Make the scent work for you by wearing a cinnamon-vanilla scented perfume. Aromatherapy experts also confirm that certain aromatic plants have oils similar to human pheromones.  Wearing cinnamon/vanilla blends intensify the presence of pheromone-like substances and dramatically increases attraction.

What scent attracts women? You won’t believe it but they are generally attracted to the scent of black licorice. Make it a point then to pick up licorice at the local store. Alternately, you may want to drink a shot of Jaggermeister or dab it on your shirt for effect!